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Trusted ways she want to be talked to.
Everyman
knows that understanding a woman takes effort not just anything. Women mostly
communicate to men through body language: that is
how they are wired to be. No man has fully ever
understood how and why they do what they do. With these trusted 17 ways from
several men of many years of marriage, YOU TOO CAN DO SAME.
IN COMMUNICATION
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When you feel you must correct
her, be gentle —speak the truth in LOVE
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Communicate with her instead of
talking AT her or shutting her out emotionally.
·
Talk to her respectfully
without demeaning her or hurting her feelings.
·
Express to her that you need
and value her.
·
Be a good listener. Show her
you value what she says: WOMEN WANT LISTENERS NOT TALKERTIVES.
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Show her that you prefer her to
others—give her your attention whenever possible
·
Give her your undivided attention
when she wants to talk.
·
Guard your tongue from saying
“unwholesome words” or down-grading her
·
Sit close to her —even when you
are just watching television.
·
Be verbally supportive with her
in front of the children.
·
Be careful to choose your
words, especially when angry.
·
Hold her close and verbally
express your love when she is hurt or discouraged.
·
Allow her to express herself
freely, without fear of being called illogical or dumb.
·
Be sensitive to her
needs—looking for ways to bless her.
·
Let her know you want to spend
special time with her and the children.
·
Don’t ignore the small things
that bother her and let them build into bigger issues.
·
Express your love and
appreciation for her in a love note which you give to her.
