But when cheating steps in, Forgiveness Can HELP.
Straight Talk
Let us get straight into how to forgive a cheating girlfriend problem. To start, you have to be certain that you're in-control of your reactions prior to discussing the problem with your girlfriend. If you're full of rage and anger and bitterness towards your girl and all of your thoughts tend to be about making her pay or be miserable, then it is too early to cope with her committing adultery.
Cool Off
Take some additional time to cool and settle down because even though your girlfriend has been unfaithful, you won't want to make an additional blunder by allowing your feelings or demons to get out of hand. Cast those liars out of your life. Build your new relationship on truth.
Do Not Blame Yourself
The next matter I'd encourage you to do, is to not blame yourself. The demon wants you to knock your head up against a wall and rack your brains on what you could have possibly done to make your relationship work. Do not get excited about this. Only take an inventory. Then decide after you have had time to analyze the event, of what are the main issues that caused the infidelity. Otherwise the same thing will happen. All of us have choices to make in everyday life and your girlfriend made a decision that does not agree with yours. Her decision has resulted from something she believes that you have done or not done to her. You must look and examine the truth to see the lie or lies that has perpetrated the infidelity
When you are on an emotional level that is aware that both parties are at fault you're ready to get to the truth and forgive your girlfriend. The initial question needing clarified would be to ask if she has made up her mind to leave the relationship or not. Her choice must be respected in order for her to have respect for you, this will be the first act of forgiveness
