UNDIVIDED ATTENTION.
Everyman will feel “am not important” when in a dinner or during conversation her woman is checking on her phone. Make eye contact while he’s talking and limit interruptions. Men’s brains are wired to do one thing at a time, give him this attention anytime he is talking to you and you will be surprised he won’t even listen to his mum anymore. Funny, but true.
COMPLIMENT HIM.
Genuine compliments on his looks and strength confirm that you admire him.Let your husband know you think of him the way he’d love to be seen. When he helps with a kitchen chore with ease, mention that you enjoy having him around. He will smile and then top it up with the reason why you chose him over the other guys
ASK HIS ADVICE
Your man wants to feel like an important part of your life. Give him that respect of asking for his advice and he will have the feel of the trust and judgment you have in his opinion.
THANK HIM FOR THE LITTLE THINGS
Next time your husband cooks for the family or drives the kids to school express your gratitude. “We’re rushing through life, we forget to notice the good deeds and forget to say what they need from you, but they have feelings, too. So say, ‘I really appreciate that’, giving thanks will improve his attitude and infuse your relationship with a feel-good energy.
A LENGHTY HUG.
While women connect verbally, men connect more through Instead of a quick peck before running out the door Hug for at least seven seconds. .It seems long right, but there’s no doubt you’ll like it, too
A QUICKIE
Making love for an hour is nice, but once in a while give him that surprise sex just a few minutes yourself. Men love that. Men feel it with an increase in dopamine, the chemical they release during sex which stimulates the mental pleasure-and-reward center.
GIVE HIM AN ATMOSHPERE TO VENT
Give him a safe space for your guy to let his walls down. “Listen to his worries or problems without trying to fix them. “It shows him you don't deem him weak or inadequate and affords him a place in the relationship to share that part of his life. Moreover, it shows you care.” If he comes home from work in a bad mood, ask him if he wants to let it out. If not, that’s fine—but he may need a prod to open the floodgates.
PUTTING YOURSELF IN GOOD SHAPE
Men love to see their women in good shape even after many years of marriage
PUT ON THEDRESS HE LOVES TO SEE YOU IN
Dolling up sends the message that you still want to look good for him, no matter how long you’ve been together. “Seeing you in that sexy dress shows him you desire him.”
COOK HIS FAVORITE MEAL
Knowing what he likes to eat without having to ask him demonstrates how well you know him. It is well known that couples who know small details about each other have the happiest marriages. But maybe your husband likes everything you make! In that case, try cooking him something he likes but have not eaten it in a while then present it to him with lots of love.
Occasionally, suggest he take a day to relax with friends, play video games, work on the car or just sleep in. Through the hustle and bustle, men forget to take care of themselves, when you encourage them to relax, its sends a love single to them.
SURPRISE HIM WITH UNDERWEAR.
Most men love it when you get a boxer short for them instead of the normal pie once in a while.
